8.09.2013

My Wish


My wish for the women of the world is to feel genuinely confident in who they are and know that it is enough. It is always enough, whether you are a Park Avenue princess or an Around-the-Way girl from Compton. 

My wish is that every woman can recognize her uniqueness and be OK with that.  We see people around us, all the time that we think are somehow better.  They may be prettier, or have better clothes or more money. They may be smarter and more accomplished, but it doesn't matter.  You are enough.  

My wish is that every woman knew that in the history of mankind, there will never be another you. Own that. Live that. You are enough.  This journey you are on is about your relationship with yourself. 

My wish is that we do away with definitions of what a "real woman" is. We are stay-at-home moms and CEOs - and everything in between.  It's a personal choice and it's never static.  Today's CEO may have been yesterday's stay-at-home mom.  

My wish is that women aren't defined by whether or not they've married and reproduced.  It's not a requirement for a happy life.

My wish is that women would take responsibility for their life and choices.  It's better this way.  If you did it, you can undo it. You can make another choice.

My wish is that women remember that you teach people how to treat you.  If you're OK with being disrespected, they are OK with disrespecting you. 

My wish is that women would trust their intuition, that small still voice inside that wants to guide you to the exact right place you need to be. 

My wish is that you leave this world with no regrets, only lessons learned. I hope you can be proud of the choices you've made, the chances you took and that you stretched and pushed yourself.

My wish is that women have fun and not take it all so seriously.  Sometimes the obstacles are actually the path.

My wish is that all women get to be exactly the woman they want to be. 

These are my wishes for you, but they are also my wishes for me. 

I hope you have a wonderful weekend.   Let's smash this.

Until Monday...